pgsql: Give an 'options' parameter to tuple_delete/_update

Give an 'options' parameter to tuple_delete/_update

The tuple_insert() method already has an equivalent argument, so this
makes sense just on consistency grounds, for future growth.

table_delete() can immediately use it to carry the 'changingPart'
boolean; for table_update we don't have any options at present.

Author: Álvaro Herrera <alvherre@kurilemu.de>
Reviewed-by: Nathan Bossart <nathandbossart@gmail.com> (older version)
Reviewed-by: Zsolt Parragi <zsolt.parragi@percona.com>
Reviewed-by: Chao Li <li.evan.chao@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Antonin Houska <ah@cybertec.at>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/202603171606.kf6pmhscqbqz@alvherre.pgsql

Branch
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master

Details
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https://git.postgresql.org/pg/commitdiff/db89a47115f0c7e664832f4b41cb03130b8a4fbe

Modified Files
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src/backend/access/heap/heapam.c         | 16 ++++++++++------
src/backend/access/heap/heapam_handler.c | 13 ++++++++-----
src/backend/access/table/tableam.c       |  6 +++---
src/backend/executor/nodeModifyTable.c   |  9 +++++++--
src/include/access/heapam.h              |  7 ++++---
src/include/access/tableam.h             | 30 ++++++++++++++++++++----------
6 files changed, 52 insertions(+), 29 deletions(-)