pgsql: Make test portlock logic work with meson

Make test portlock logic work with meson

Previously the portlock logic, added in 9b4eafcaf41, didn't actually work
properly when the tests were run via meson. 9b4eafcaf41 used the
MESON_BUILD_ROOT environment variable to determine the directory for the port
lock directory, but that's never set for running the tests.  That meant that
each test used its own portlock dir, unless the PG_TEST_PORT_DIR environment
variable was set.

Fix the problem by setting top_builddir for the environment. That's also used
for the autoconf/make build.

Backpatch back to 16, where meson support was added.

Reported-by: Zharkov Roman <r.zharkov@postgrespro.ru>
Reviewed-by: Andrew Dunstan <andrew@dunslane.net>
Backpatch-through: 16

Branch
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REL_17_STABLE

Details
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https://git.postgresql.org/pg/commitdiff/0f7c0fb59cb71e1ecd45c6892ab184fefbfde8be

Modified Files
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meson.build                              | 2 ++
src/test/perl/PostgreSQL/Test/Cluster.pm | 4 +---
2 files changed, 3 insertions(+), 3 deletions(-)