Re: [EXTERNAL] Re: PQcancel does not use tcp_user_timeout, connect_timeout and keepalive settings

We actually ran into an issue caused by this in production, where a PQcancel connection was open on the client for a 2+
daysbecause the server had restarted at the wrong moment in the cancel handshake. The client was now indefinitely
waitingfor the server to send an EOF back, and because keepalives were not enabled on this socket it was never closed. 

I attached an updated patch which also uses the keepalive settings in PQ. The connect_timeout is a bit harder to get it
towork. As far as I can tell it would require something like this. https://stackoverflow.com/a/2597774/2570866 

> The other field names are quite short. How about naming the field tcp_timeout ?

I kept the same names as in the pg_conn struct for consistency sake.