"rejected" vs "returned with feedback" in new CF app

I tried to mark the "UPDATE SET (*)" patch as "returned with feedback",
but the CF app informed me that if I did that the patch would
automatically be moved to the next commitfest.  That seems completely
stupid.  There is no need to reconsider it unless a new version of the
patch is forthcoming (which there may or may not ever be, but that's
beside the point for now).  When and if the author does submit a new
patch, that would be the time to include it in the next commitfest, no?

I ended up marking it "rejected" instead, but that seems a bit harsh.
        regards, tom lane