pgsql: Rewrite the sinval messaging mechanism to reduce contention and

Log Message:
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Rewrite the sinval messaging mechanism to reduce contention and avoid
unnecessary cache resets.  The major changes are:

* When the queue overflows, we only issue a cache reset to the specific
backend or backends that still haven't read the oldest message, rather
than resetting everyone as in the original coding.

* When we observe backend(s) falling well behind, we signal SIGUSR1
to only one backend, the one that is furthest behind and doesn't already
have a signal outstanding for it.  When it finishes catching up, it will
in turn signal SIGUSR1 to the next-furthest-back guy, if there is one that
is far enough behind to justify a signal.  The PMSIGNAL_WAKEN_CHILDREN
mechanism is removed.

* We don't attempt to clean out dead messages after every message-receipt
operation; rather, we do it on the insertion side, and only when the queue
fullness passes certain thresholds.

* Split SInvalLock into SInvalReadLock and SInvalWriteLock so that readers
don't block writers nor vice versa (except during the infrequent queue
cleanout operations).

* Transfer multiple sinval messages for each acquisition of a read or
write lock.

Modified Files:
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    pgsql/src/backend/postmaster:
        postmaster.c (r1.558 -> r1.559)
        (http://anoncvs.postgresql.org/cvsweb.cgi/pgsql/src/backend/postmaster/postmaster.c?r1=1.558&r2=1.559)
    pgsql/src/backend/storage/ipc:
        sinval.c (r1.85 -> r1.86)
        (http://anoncvs.postgresql.org/cvsweb.cgi/pgsql/src/backend/storage/ipc/sinval.c?r1=1.85&r2=1.86)
        sinvaladt.c (r1.70 -> r1.71)
        (http://anoncvs.postgresql.org/cvsweb.cgi/pgsql/src/backend/storage/ipc/sinvaladt.c?r1=1.70&r2=1.71)
    pgsql/src/backend/utils/cache:
        inval.c (r1.85 -> r1.86)
        (http://anoncvs.postgresql.org/cvsweb.cgi/pgsql/src/backend/utils/cache/inval.c?r1=1.85&r2=1.86)
    pgsql/src/include/storage:
        lwlock.h (r1.38 -> r1.39)
        (http://anoncvs.postgresql.org/cvsweb.cgi/pgsql/src/include/storage/lwlock.h?r1=1.38&r2=1.39)
        pmsignal.h (r1.19 -> r1.20)
        (http://anoncvs.postgresql.org/cvsweb.cgi/pgsql/src/include/storage/pmsignal.h?r1=1.19&r2=1.20)
        sinval.h (r1.47 -> r1.48)
        (http://anoncvs.postgresql.org/cvsweb.cgi/pgsql/src/include/storage/sinval.h?r1=1.47&r2=1.48)
        sinvaladt.h (r1.47 -> r1.48)
        (http://anoncvs.postgresql.org/cvsweb.cgi/pgsql/src/include/storage/sinvaladt.h?r1=1.47&r2=1.48)